I now see your problem...there are no "BRO's" here. The men on this site for the most part are helpful and generous...and occasionally scold the youngins with a little sarcasm and teasing when they don't do their due diligence.
You came on and started 3 or 4 threads in a few days. It is obvious you are just learning. When you post things with an amount of certainty as if you suddenly are an expert(and wrong)...those guys who do know are not going to let it slid. It's obvious you don't know the rules...which in it self isn't an issue. But be prepared to be corrected. And attitudes don't stick around here very long...
^^^ This ^^^ 110% this. Make friends with those that are truly passionate about our sport and you will find yourself with information you (literally) can't buy.